Marami ng pagsasama at tahanan ang sinira ng pagtataksil. Hindi na ito bago sa ating lipunan at maging noon pa man ay marami ng ganitong pangyayari.
Ang nakakaawa sa ganitong sitwasyon ay ang mga anak na naapektuhan dahil sa hiwalayan ng kanilang mga magulang. Ito ang nakakalungkot na pangyayaring ibinahagi ng netizen na si Jerlyn Busaco.
Sa kanyang Facebook post, ikinuwento ni Jerlyn kung papaano niya sinubukang ipaglaban ang kanyang pamilya sa kabila ng hirap at pagtitiis na kanyang naranasan.
Ayon kay Jerlyn, magkasintahan pa lamang sila noon ng kanyang asawa ay babaero na raw talaga ito. Ngunit palagi pa rin niya itong pinapatawad dahil sa kanyang pagmamahal.
Noong sila ay magpakasal at magkaroon ng kambal na anak, akala ni Jerlyn ay magbabago na ang kanyang asawa. Ngunit hindi pa umaabot sa isang taon matapos nilang magpakasal ay nagtataksil na ito.
Nalaman ni Jerlyn na may relasyon ang kanyang asawa sa babaeng nagngangalang Ginafe Martinez.
Ayon sa kanya, walong buwan na palang magkarelasyon ang dalawa. Pinilit pa rin daw intindihin ni Jerlyn ang kanyang asawa at maging ang mga payo ng kaibigan ay hindi niya pinakinggan.
“I was trying to fix my family and even talk to him heart to heart, he told me that he loves us and he just had some reasons why he was having relationshp wth the woman. I still undrstood him and even neglected the advices of others just to save our family. But as time goes by the situation gets worst he never go home on his day off,” saad ni Jerlyn.
Para sa kanilang mga anak ay tinitiis ni Jerlyn ang sakit. Minsan raw ay isang oras o dalawang oras na lamang ito kung manatili sa kanilang bahay.
Samantala, muling nabuntis si Jerlyn ng kanyang asawa, ngunit imbes na magbago ito ay sinabihan pa siya na ipalaglag na lamang ang ipinagbubuntis.
“Then i got pregnant again, i was trying to reach out to him and hoping it would change his mind, but all he said was ab0rt the child.”
Dumaan sa maraming pagsubok si Jerlyn dahil sa pagbubuntis ng mag-isa. Sa huli ay tumigil na rin si Jerlyn na ayusin ang relasyon nila ng kanyang asawa at nag focus na lamang siya sa pag aalaga sa kanyang mga anak.
“My married life ended too soon, but my life as a mother has just begun, i will just focus on my children and those who truly love me and my babies.”
Basahin ang buong post ni Jerlyn:
“MY EVER DREAMED HAPPY FAMILY THAT WAS LOST
I want to share the miserable life that ive been through.
When I was in college and about to graduate i met this man who is my only boyfriend and first love,who became my husband, his the only man i ever love, ive been through sufferings because of loving him, but still i continue to forgive and understand, i supported him all the way until he reached his dreams. Then we got married and had twin babies. I thought that he would change his vice of having different woman, i was a bit complasant that time that he would be a good papa and husband. I was too blind that during the 10th month of our marriage he was again having relationshp wth other woman, i was suspecious because he seldom go home and spend time wth us, but he insisted that he was just workng hard to sustain our needs, he would say i am a buddy of an official thats why i couldnt go home, and here comes a time that his mistress in the person of GINAFE R. MARTINEZ who happened to be a mistress also of a prominent politician, she contacted me telling me that theyre living together.. so its not an official that my husband had been with for the past 8months, it was his mistress that his spending his time instead of his family. I was trying to fix my family and even talk to him heart to heart, he told me that he loves us and he just had some reasons why he was having relationshp wth the woman. I still undrstood him and even neglected the advices of others just to save our family. But as time goes by the situation gets worst he never go home on his dayoff even just to see our children, when he go home its just 1-2 hrs then he would left. Then i got pregnant again, i was trying to reach out to him and hoping it would change his mind, but all he said was ab0rt the child it was devastating, yet i insisted to continue the pregnancy, there are times that when i needed a husband because im alone at home. i couldnt force my husband to be wth me, his mistress wont allow him to go home. Then my husband and the mistress had a small fight because she heared about my pregnancy, the mistress would call me that my husband would cry in front of her on bended knees, that difinitely broke my heart,he had never done that on me just to save our family. I carried the pain and the sadness in my heart making my body to give up, i almost lost my third child because of stress. I thought my husband would comfort me even if its just a fake care even just for our baby, but he would rather tell me i dont want to see you cause his with the mistress. I was suffering mental and physical distress, he did physically abused me. One thing that really breaks my heart when he told me that i dont have worth at all, that if i feel pained i should take my life and he would be very happy seeing me dead wth the child i carry, and he would still chose his mistress.
I dont know why i would be treated this way, i dont deserve all this pain and rude treatment, but later on i realized no matter what we do to fight for our family, no matter how understanding and supportive wife we are we can never force someone who's inlove wth somebody else. I even asked my husband why you dont visit our children you dont miss them? Our babies looking for you, they would usually say papa ma? (Or playing my phone trying to call him on the phone saying hellow papa) but he just answered i was used to it i am a man i can have children wth other woman. I was confused how a father could easily scratch his family who loves him so much and didnt do anything bad against him. When his at home we always made sure to show him how we loved him, i made sure i took care of him, i made sure to always make him feel comfortable, that he has a loving wife and children who's happy to see him. I wonder how he has a very rock hard heart to ignore and disregard his family. All this questions come in my mind, i also wonder how some woman would still continue such relationshp even if they knew they stepped on somebody,that they broke a family. I did my best to save my family, and for my children to have a father but my husband is happy wth his mistress. He was very happy wth the comfortable life his mistress gives him, driving car, living in a fancy house, visiting different places, eating what he wants to eat all expense paid, he exchanged his family wth the rich like life he experienced with his mistress. My 2019 was full of challenges yet i know my God wont leave me. And later on i could understand why i need to exprience all of this.
My married life ended too soon, but my life as a mother has just begun, i will just focus on my children and those who truly love me and my babies.”